Sunday, January 25, 2009

Remember: WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT




Remember that reaching your destination is

only part of living.

Enjoying the journey is the other.


Remember that no one person in life

can make you happy.

True happiness comes from within.








Remember that words are very powerful,

and they stay around forever ~ so

always make sure that what you say counts.


Remember that true love is the most precious

gift of all, and the most tender of all emotions.

Be sure to give it out as much as possible.


Remember that no one has all the answers to life.

Life is an adventure that must be enjoyed to the fullest.

Sometimes it is the surprises along the way

that make it all worthwhile.






Remember that if today seems dark,

tomorrow will always be brighter.

Sometimes we need to get lost in the darkness

before we can fully appreciate the light in our path.


Remember to appreciate the moment you are in.

When you live in the past or in the future,

you miss everything in between, and

you will have never truly lived.


Remember that change is a good thing.

When you learn new things and

takes on new challenges,

you expand your mind and become

a better person for it.





Remember that if you love someone, tell them.

Life is short and it moves very quickly.

Loving someone openly gives purpose and

meaning to your days.


Remember to stop and take a breath.

Life is not a race to be won.

The only way to enjoy all of it

is one moment at a time.








Sunday, January 18, 2009

Inside the heart ..


Inside the heart of each and every one of us there is a longing to be understood by someone who really cares. When a person is understood, he or she can put up with almost anything in the world.
~ by Rev Ed Hird ~

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Until reality hits...


We only hear what we want to hear...
We only see what we want to see...
Until reality hits...

Wealth, Success, and Love


A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat."





"Is the man of the house home?", they asked.

"No", she replied. "He's out."

"Then we cannot come in", they replied.



In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.



"Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"



The woman went out and invited the men in"

"We do not go into a House together," they replied.

"Why is that?" she asked.

One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. "How nice!!", he said. "Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!"



His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?"



Their daughter-in- law was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"

"Let us heed our daughter-in- law's advice," said the husband to his wife.



"Go out and invite Love to be our guest."



The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest."

Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"

The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!!!!! !"



MY WISH FOR YOU...



-Where there is pain, I wish you peace and mercy.

-Where there is self-doubting, I wish you a renewed confidence in your ability to work through it.

-Where there is tiredness, or exhaustion, I wish you understanding, patience, and renewed strength.

-Where there is fear, I wish you love, and courage.



New Year Celebrations Around The World


In ancient Egypt, New Year was celebrated at the time the River Nile flooded, which was near the end of September. The flooding of the Nile was very important because without it, the people would not have been able to grow crops in the dry desert. At New Year, statues of the god, Amon and his wife and son were taken up the Nile by boat. Singing, dancing, and feasting was done for a month, and then the statues were taken back to the temple.



In the Soviet Union, children who live in the city of Moscow may visit the Kremlin Palace of Congresses. There they will see a huge fir tree called the New Year Tree. The tree is decorated with countless colored lights. Children might also see a fairy-tale play and get gifts from Grandfather Frost and his helper the Snow Maiden.



People in Sweden attend church services in the morning. Then comes a big family dinner, much like the one at Christmas.



The Muslim calendar is based on the movements of the moon, so the date of New Year is eleven days earlier each year.



Iran is a Muslim country which used to be called Persia. The people celebrate New Year on March 21, and a few weeks before this date, people put grains of wheat or barley in a little dish to grow. By the time of New Year, the grains have produced shoots, and this reminds the people of spring and a new year of life. Most Hindus live in India, but they don't all celebrate the New Year in the same way or at the same time.



The people of West Bengal, in northern India, like to wear flowers at New Year, and they use flowers in the colors of pink, red, purple, or white. Women like to wear yellow, which is the color of Spring.



In Kerala, in southern India, mothers put food, flowers, and little gifts on a special tray. On New Year's morning, the children have to keep their eyes closed until they have been led to the tray. In central India, orange flags are flown from buildings on New Year's Day.



In Gujarat, in western India, New Year is celebrated at the end of October, and it is celebrated at the same time as the Indian festival of Diwali. At the time of Diwali, small oil lights are lit all along the roofs of buildings.



At New Year, Hindus think particularly of the goddess of wealth, Lakshmi.



In Vietnam, the New Year is called Tet Nguyen Dan or Tet for short. It begins between January 21 and February 19, and the exact day changes from year to year. They believe that there is a god in every home, and at the New Year this god travels to heaven. There he will say how good or bad each member of the family has been in the past year. They used to believe that the god traveled on the back of a fish called a carp, and today, they sometimes buy a live carp, and then let it go free in a river or pond. They also believe that the first person to enter their house at New Year will bring either good or bad luck.



In Japan, New Year is celebrated on January 1, but the Japanese also keep some beliefs from their religion, which is called Shinto. To keep out evil spirits, they hang a rope of straw across the front of their houses, and this stands for happiness and good luck. The moment the New Year begins, the Japanese people begin to laugh, and this is supposed to bring them good luck in the new year.



China (courtesy Denise Richards) The origin of the Chinese New Year is itself centuries old - in fact, too old to actually be traced. It is popularly recognized as the Spring Festival and celebrations last 15 days. Preparations tend to begin a month from the date of the Chinese New Year (similar to a Western Christmas), when people start buying presents, decoration materials, food and clothing.



A huge clean-up gets underway days before the New Year, when Chinese houses are cleaned from top to bottom, to sweep away any traces of bad luck, and doors and windowpanes are given a new coat of paint, usually red.



The doors and windows are then decorated with paper cuts and couplets with themes such as happiness, wealth and longevity printed on them. The eve of the New Year is perhaps the most exciting part of the event, as anticipation creeps in. Here, traditions and rituals are very carefully observed in everything from food to clothing.



Dinner is usually a feast of seafood and dumplings, signifying different good wishes. Delicacies include prawns, for liveliness and happiness, dried oysters (or ho xi), for all things good, raw fish salad or yu sheng to bring good luck and prosperity, Fai-hai (Angel Hair), an edible hair-like seaweed to bring prosperity, and dumplings boiled in water (Jiaozi) signifying a long-lost good wish for a family. It's usual to wear something red as this color is meant to ward off evil spirits - but black and white are out, as these are associated with mourning.



After dinner, the family sit up for the night playing cards, board games or watching TV programs dedicated to the occasion. At midnight, the sky is lit up by fireworks.



On the day itself, an ancient custom called Hong Bao, meaning Red Packet, takes place. This involves married couples giving children and unmarried adults money in red envelopes. Then the family begins to say greetings from door to door, first to their relatives and then their neighbors. Like the Western saying "let bygones be bygones," at Chinese New Year, grudges are very easily cast aside. The end of the New Year is marked by the Festival of Lanterns, which is a celebration with singing, dancing and lantern shows. The Chinese New Year is celebrated some time between January 17 and February 19, at the time of the new moon, and it is called Yuan Tan. It is celebrated by Chinese people all over the world, and street processions are an exciting part of their New Year.



The Festival of Lanterns is the street processions, and thousands of lanterns are used to light the way for the New Year The Chinese people believe that there are evil spirits around at New Year, so they let off firecrackers to frighten the spirits away. Sometimes they seal their windows and doors with paper to keep the evil spirits out.



In Europe, New Year was often a time for superstition and fortune-telling, and in some parts of Switzerland and Austria, people dress up to celebrate Saint Sylvester's Eve. In AD 314, there was a Pope called Saint Sylvester, and people believed that he captured a terrible sea monster. It was thought that in the year 1000, this sea monster would escape and destroy the world, but since it didn't happen, the people were delighted.



Since then, in parts of Austria and Switzerland, this story is remembered at New Year, and people dress up in fantastic costumes, and are called Sylvesterklauses.
In Greece, New Year's Day is also the Festival of Saint Basil. Saint Basil was famous for his kindness, and Greek children leave their shoes by the fire on New Year's Day with the hope that he will come and fill the shoes with gifts.



In Scotland, New Year is called Hogmanay, and in some villages barrels of tar are set alight and rolled through the streets. Thus, the old year is burned up and the new one allowed to enter. Scottish people believe that the first person to enter your house in the New Year will bring good or bad luck, and it is very good luck if the visitor is a dark-haired man bringing a gift. This custom is called first-footing. The song, Auld Lang Syne is sung at midnight on New Year's Eve, and this custom is now celebrated all over the world.



In British Columbia, Canada, there is the traditional polar bear swim. People of all ages put on their bathing suits, and plunge into the icy cold water which surrounds Vancouver during the winter.



The United States rings in the New Year with it's largest celebration since 1908, the dropping of the ball in New York's Time Square. Then on New Year's Day it celebrates with the Tournement of Roses Parade, held for over 100 years in Pasadena, California, by decorating floats with thousands of flowers, seeds and other plant materials. In Philadelphia, Pennsylvania they have the Mummers' Parade.

Saturday, January 10, 2009

PRICELESS THINGS

~PRICELESS THINGS~
Life holds so many priceless things

The falling rain--the wind that sings

Each star on a high--a big full moon

And sunbeams dancing in your room

The river as it rushes on

A sunset when day is gone

No wealth can buy a mountain tall

These priceless things belong to all

An autumn tree lends beauty rare

With leaves piled deep most everywhere

As nature wears a glowing smile

to make each day a day worthwhile

Could anything be quite as dear

As laughing children that we hear

The gift of friendship that is ours

The miracle of growing flowers

Each magic moment--treasured time

These priceless gifts are yours and mine...

Humble


To be humble is to be on the first leg of the journey to purity. The humble has yet to be on the first leg of the journey to purity. The humble has yet to be pure. He is on the way to it. One cannot be pure without being humble, because there is no greater impurity than ego .

The most wonderful of all things in life is..


The most wonderful of all things in life is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a growing depth, beauty and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvellous thing; it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all things in life.


Faith



FAITH is not belief, it is love.


Faith is not belief it is not half, it is total.


Faith is not belief because there is no doubt in it,


so how can you believe?

Just Do Your Best


It’s not always easy to know which path to follow, which decision to make, or what to do.



Life is a series of new horizons, new hopes, new days, and changes that come to you. And we all need some help with these things from time to time.



Remember these things: Dream it. Do it. And discover how special you are. Be positive, for your attitude will affect the outcome of many things. Ask for help when you need it; seek the wisdom the world holds and hold on to it. Make some progress every single day. Begin. Relieve. And become.



Give yourself all the credit you’re due; don’t short change your qualities, your abilities, or any of the things that are so unique about you. Remember how precious life can be. Imagine. Invest the time it takes to reach out for your dreams; it will bring you happiness that no money on earth can buy. Don’t be afraid; no mountain is too big to climb if you do it at your own pace.


What’s the best thing to do? That’s simple:



Do Your Best.



And everything else will fall into place.

Love is...



Love is...

being happy for the other person

when they are happy

being sad for the other person when they are sad

being together in good times

and being together in bad times

Love is the source of strength



Love is...

being honest with yourself at all times

being honest with the other person at all times

telling, listening, respecting the truth

and never pretending

Love is the source of reality



Love is...

an understanding that is so complete that

you feel as if you are a part of the other person

accepting the other person just the way they are

and not trying to change them to be something else

Love is the source of unity



Love is...

the freedom to pursue your own desires

while sharing your experiences with the other person

the growth of one individual alongside of

and together with the growth of another individual

Love is the source of success



Love is...

the excitement of planning things together

the excitement of doing things together

Love is the source of the future



Love is...

the fury of the storm

the calm of the rainbow

Love is the source of passion



Love is...

giving and taking in a daily situation

being patient with each other's needs and desires

Love is the source of sharing



Love is...

knowing that the other person

will always be with you regardless of what happens

missing the other person when they are away

but remaining near in heart at all times

Love is the source of security



Love is...the source of life.



A Little Girls Dreams


Dreams keep running through my mind
Reflecting memories of long ago.
Made in a land of fairy tales,
A place my heart longs for so.
Cut off from the rest of the world
With streams, and meadows to roam,
Viewed from a little girl's eyes,
A place that would always be home
A place where berries grew wild
Where rabbits and squirrels were seen
Where a racoon could be a friend
And deer played down by the stream.
A world where imagination made all come true
And a little girl could be a queen
Where daydreams were spun like cobwebs
But a world where everything wasn't what it seemed.
For every little girl has to grow up
And daydreams shatter in your hand,
You find the home you thought was your own
Is nothing but a simple piece of land.
The flowers don't seem to bloom so bright,
And fairy tales no longer come true,
For it is seen now through grownup eyes,
No longer the world that you knew.
But still...Somewhere in the back of my mind
That place will always remain
From all those memories long ago
To beckon me back time and again.

My half

A picture is worth a thousand words……
my half

I want to be..


I want to be the first thing on your mind, and the last one in your heart.






I want to fall asleep in your arms, and wake up with the morning sun in our eyes, the birds chirping, and me, still in your arms.






I Dont want to be your first, or your second or third. I want to be your last.






Your last kiss, your last girlfriend, your last love.



Baby lets spend forever together.


Three Little Words


Three simple little words

but they mean so very much.



Sometimes they are said

with a tender loving touch.



At time it's seen

within each others eyes.



For loving eyes

never tell lies.



And sometimes

it is heard ...



In these

three little words.



I love you

as I have never loved before.



I need you

To feel safe and secure.



I want you

Of that there is no doubt



These are the feelings

to you I want to shout.



Life is short

sometimes it is taken away.



Never put off until tomorrow

what should be said today.



Love begins with love

Sometimes with the first hello.



My love grew for you

and I have told you so.



Love isn't what we are ...

It's something that we do.



And I will spend

my whole life through ...



Always loving you.



A Smile


Title - A Smile


A SMILE costs nothing, but gives much* It enriches those who receive, without making poorer those who give* It takes but a moment, but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever* None is so rich or mighty that he can get along without it, and none is so poor but that he can be made rich by it*



A SMILE creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in business, and is the countersign of friendship* It brings rest to the weary, cheer to the discouraged, sunshine to the sad, and it is nature's best antidote for trouble* Yet it cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is of no value to anyone until it is given away*



Some people are too tired to give you a SMILE* Give them one of yours, as none needs a SMILE so much as he who has no more to give.





LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST







Don’t let anyone hold your happiness

in their hands,

hold in yours, so, it will be

within your reach.



Don’t measure success or failure by

material wealth,

but by how you feel;

your feelings will determine the richness of

your life.



Don’t let bad moments overcome you;

be patient, and they will pass.

Don’t hesitate to reach out for help;

we all need it from time to time.



Don’t run away from love,

but toward love,

because it is the deepest joy.







Don’t wait for what you want

to come to you.

go after it with all that you are,

knowing that life will meet you halfway.



Don’t feel like you’ve lost

when plans and dreams fall short of

your hopes.

anytime you learn something new

about yourself or about life,

you have progressed.



Don’t do anything that takes away

from your self-respect.

Feeling good about yourself

is essential to feeling good about life.



Don’t ever forget how to laugh.

or be too proud to cry.

it is by doing both that you will



LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST.



Saturday, December 6, 2008

WHEN you love...

WHEN you love, you have to become nobody. If you remain somebody, then love never happens. When you love a person - even for a single moment love happens and flows between two persons- There are two nothingness, not two persons. If you have ever had any experience of love, you can understand it.

Beauty

Keep your faith in all beautiful things; in the sun when it is hidden, in the Spring when it is gone.

TRUST

HEART doesn’t know what doubt is, heart doesn’t know what BELIEVE is- heart simply knows trust. Heart is like a small child; the small child clings to the father’s hand, and wherever the father is going the child is going, neither trusting nor doubting. The child is undivided. Doubt is half, belief is half. A child is still total. Whole.

Humble

To be humble is to be on the first leg of the journey to purity. The humble has yet to be on the first leg of the journey to purity. The humble has yet to be pure. He is on the way to it. One cannot be pure without being humble, because there is no greater impurity than ego.

WHEN you love

WHEN you love a person all fear disappears. And when you are afraid all love disappears.

TRUTH

TRUTH is simple. Very simple-so simple that a child can understand it. In fact, so simple that only a child can understand it. Unless you become a child again you will not be able to understand it. It is an experience, not speculation.